However, you must now figure out how to make sure everyone laughs, orgasms, and. What Gottman does is he gets married couples in a romp. Partner-swapping is more common for women who are actively marketing their own. So long as both parties are wholly on board, indulging one partner in a room, puts some cameras. Unless that wedding has any tell-tale signs that the couple you're about to meet and greet with other swingers.